Having tried just about everything nothing seems to have worked. I understand that is hard to let go of someone that you have loved but there comes a point when you have to let them free to live their life. I know it is not easy for I also had to go through this but I made it. Now don't get me wrong I am not trying to say that it is by any means easy, and that the feeling of just wanting to tell them they have no idea what they are doing and what they are doing is wrong. But you have to cut the rope sometime and let people find where their life is going on their own even if that means that you are not part of it anymore.
Don't get me wrong I am not saying it is okay to go out and just use people by any means. What I am trying to say is that before committing to anyone know that you are willing to give that relationship everything, but also know that if for some reason things just don't work out no matter the feelings you have, had, or know will never go away, you are willing to let that other person go and have the chance to make their into what they want it to be.
First hand I know that there are always feeling that you just can't seem to get rid of no matter how hard you try, and maybe they are meant to be there for a reason even if you do not know them now, someday everything will seem to fall into place.
As for me right now I am still trying to get him to understand that what we had is just that, and I am at the point in my life that I am ready to see where life is going to take me and who is going to be brought into my life and who is not going to stick around.
